It's difficult when you are in a marriage and two people are focused on themselves. It defeats the whole person of getting married. Marriage is supposed to be about the "two becoming one," the two honoring each other, the two bringing out the best in each other.

It's frustrating to hear my parents talk. Mostly my mom. There is such a focus on her own hurts that my father becomes an enemy and it affects the way that she approaches him. They're not good friends. Though her pain is valid, as is his, as Christians, we give up our attachment to it, our right to it.
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I hope for God to heal their marriage. To shatter the lens through which they see their marriage and each other. Because if not, they will never move on. They need to move on...